Rarely is dwelling on the past seen in a positive light nor should it be. Thinking too much about times gone by typically keeps your mind and life stuck in neutral and maybe even shifts it into reverse. If you habitually ruminate over your earlier life, you may regularly be revisited by feelings of anger, guilt, resentment, sorrow, or shame. Such emotions are hardly productive.
Let Us All Nail Our "UNWANTEDNESS" to the cross!! (mine is filling up!) The Harming Memories & Wounds & The Negative Emotions & SPILL FORGIVENESS ALL OVER THE PLACE!! AMEN XX <3